The first consolation: The most important is that today's heart;
why the painful feelings of regret and lost now, why worry for the inexplicable suicide out of fear. The past is gone forever, no matter how regret is useless. The future is elusive, and then how will concerns about the empty sad. Today, heart, and now people do today, but it is real, but also feel good. Of course, past experience to summarize, to prevent future risk, this is wisdom.
yesterday is gone and tomorrow has not arrived, this is true.
second consolation: only his own heartache treatment;
why regret for the painful loss of mood. Vent the occasional complaint, but also very necessary, but will only add to the endless complaints of trouble, only to show their incompetence to others, complaining is a deadly negative attitude, once complained about his bad habits then life will become dark not only their own good and no state of mind, and others have bad luck followed.
no good to complain, optimism is the most important.
third comfort: good state of mind is self-created;
we often can not change the opinions of others, can change just by ourselves. Life is not bad other people's sins, but in our hearts to become worse. Golden Key is not to make life change for the better hands of others, give up our resentments and sigh, a better life within reach. We wanted a good life subjectively, but objectively it is not a good life, the reason is always to wait for others to improve their lives,
do not expect to change other people, own the master of life.
fourth consolation: the intention to do their own thing to do;
Life is too short, which people wanted to be wasted? wise philosopher once said: Some people call me on the street, I was the head not returning, and did not want to know the boring person!
especially in the youth learn skills to go all out, do not get distracted.
fifth consolation: Do not always make life difficult for themselves with their own;
learn to appreciate themselves, the same as having a golden key to get happy and appreciate that they are not idle, they are not conceited enjoy and appreciate that they are not self-satisfaction, appreciation she is more than rest on its laurels ... for ourselves some information that he give yourself happy, smiling face for ourselves, there is no need to worry for things in life?
often to their own holiday, learn to find pleasure in the mood.
sixth comfort: Do not chase worldly honor;
lifelong search for the so-called other people recognized things, will never lost his joy and happiness. Ashes to Ashes his vulgar comments will be personality, will make their own secular pointing loss. For money and the cash to make their own disowned for the right to make their own reckless right, in the name of the name to make themselves skillfully taking Grab, the real me in the pursuit of being deliberately, will become a picture of debris flapping in the wind, the secular I have become terrifying.
was kitsch, lost the real, to strengthen their confidence, with self.
seventh comfort: extreme undesirable;
often because of concerns over some people, which led to his insanity, but because of some insensitive, resulting in their indifference to everything. The former often find rational and pain, too clever by half and the bad, stupid is what the root of all regret. The latter do not know why regret things, all day long sleepwalk life, living and dead is no different.
extremes always fail miserably, look for the wisdom of life.
eighth comfort: you're doing someone else's evaluation;
not a painting is not to be evaluated, and no one is not to be topic of discussion. If their silence, someone will accuse
just look at someone else's face, do you live do not live with ourselves, not confined to self.
ninth comfort: the more evil the more deep pain;
Why can not live peacefully? key is to not drive the hearts of the demons in time. Because the feel evil thought, would not be sensible to restrain myself, and often make stupid remorse. Mind because there is no time cleaning dust, weak-willed will fall into the pit from time to time. Since it is often possessed, will let stupid be so blind, into the wrong fork in the road do not know.
evil heart will distraught, to evil.
tenth comfort: Be careful not to live too tired;
people often lament, live tiring. Tired, is the mental pressure; tired, is a psychological burden. Tired and not tired is always relative, in order not tired, we must learn to relax, live your Chi Zhang in there. Heart is tired, people had long suffered sub-health state; heart is tired, will make their own lack of energy.
not tired heart, learn to set them free.
eleventh comfort: Each person has their own living law;
your pain yourself clearly, their own sad they understand, their own feelings of happiness, and perhaps their own eyes hell, but it is the eyes of others Heaven, heaven may be your own eye, but it is another man's hell, life is so funny, do not always spring in the family suspected, the key is to adjust their mindset had their own lives the most important, is not better than climbing.
twelfth comfort: not to desire the slaves;
people always sigh But if they think about it, we live around the tragedy of this desire there? She Tunxiang less people. Indulge their souls will eventually lose the true freedom! Must always guard against bad desire.
thirteenth comfort: take life easy and happy;
not blind comparisons with others, their will be leisurely, not to set too high goals in life, their joy will often not deliberate pursuit of perfection that he will stay away from pain, not always take himself, his will to live free, do not often find fault that he will be easy.
live too tired to be in pain, contentment!
fourteenth comfort: like his will to embrace life;
blindly arrogant self-esteem, is proud of the life of ignorance, blindly give up on themselves, is negative and pessimistic life. Understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. Self-esteem with the appropriate mental health, will show the face of setbacks particularly strong. The temptation of the outside world is not lost self, not to deny their own temporary setbacks, always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often optimism certainly appreciate themselves.
fifteenth comfort: the use of good eyes to the world;
water to clear there are no fish, no friends of people to the police. Everywhere can not tolerate the faults of others, then everyone becomes bad, it can not live in peace. To see the world of evil, the world is broken remnant of everywhere; to good look at the world, the world a lovely place. Their own to look at other people's strengths, the more look the more lovely.
sixteenth comfort: do not blindly to please others;
is impossible to please everyone, and it is not necessary to please everyone, equal to offend everyone, deliberately to please others will only make people aversion, people close to nature, speculative mentality to change, have the time please, not as good as working sense, is always a risk to please others, their only real effort.
blindly to please others will lose self, to enrich themselves is very important.
seventeenth comfort: a done deal would have to go with the flow;
mature rice raw rice has been boiled, go to the previous acts of remorse, a little benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to properly handle the back things, do not let things worse, thrown out of the water is not being paid, and has been carved wooden boat is not restitution, and to know the truth of these simple, you can calmly deal with legacy issues. Regret no benefits, not to take things worse.
eighteenth comfort: Although poor psychological material is not down and out;
poor material is not terrible, terrible poverty is psychological. Often associated with the down and out of poverty, poor people often want to turn off the short and Records, psychology of poverty, the rich will become poor, psychological rich, the poor can become rich. Poor material with despair, will quickly destroy a person's body, self-confidence, poor material at the moment, but the good days will come soon,
people are poor go rather short, self-improvement.
nineteenth comfort: happiness, Woe, Woe to the blessed;
Mo temporary gains and losses are carried away, blindly intoxicated with a temporary victory, he must be vigilant and must not claim credit arrogant, complacent, intoxicated Victory means stop and pause, intoxicated with victory, means the loss of vigilance, life on the road to never Zhong maintained, the victory is just a small sign. To win the final victory, only the effort, more effort.
Mo was confused by the moment, who laugh at the latest, who laughed the most fun.
twentieth comfort: It is important to live full;
to have a good every day is the greatest happiness comes from feeling good every day, worried about tomorrow's overall risk, the total erase yesterday shadows of life today how smug? Comparisons are not always comparisons, the total fantasy that can not be achieved, how can the quiet mood today? Unrealistic things that are the source of the pain, the biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety,
pain from not fulfilling, enriching life, not cranky.
twenty-one consolation: there are degrees of life should be fun;
recreational activities appropriate to adjust the mood, the joy is easy to turn endless benefits harm. Anti-matter is very, few poor to change, remorse. Enjoy a degree is a philosophical life, Queer is not limited to entertainment, involving all aspects of life.
joy and sadness are associated, and joy are often accompanied by the degree will be happy. Twenty-two
comfort: for a living law may be more happy;
great at work when their not liking everywhere are feeling the wall, is there a need for a change of scenery? When his very unhappy in marriage, and always feel are icehouse, have the courage to break through the knot? When one has been used to submissive, will stand tall to say Confident, able to self-improvement, able to adjust their living conditions,
not too useless to live comfortable is the spirit of happiness.
twenty-three consolation: may wish to temporarily put aside bothering;
Life is short so bitter that he is not happy why is always live. Is normal in trouble, no trouble is not normal. If your heart feel good, we might go to the movies, may wish to listen to some music, may wish to sing a song, may wish to make a phone call, might as well enjoy the sunshine ...
mind to worry about hell, the first happy A music.
twenty-four consolation: the foundation of pleasure in his body;
most people in life always pleasant, and placed in the external affairs attached to the secular identity, the status of every possible value, property, and the treatment , reputation and other things that he once lost them, is a heavy blow, often lose, their well-being and happiness of the foundation also will be destroyed, if they really had such a life, then happiness is to want to be distant from us, why should others to evaluate their level of happiness, a good grasp of their own.
twenty-five consolation: feeling of happiness is happiness;
many are in deliberate pursuit of the so-called happiness; although some have been, its costs are huge and many philosophers have said that happiness is a feeling. The feeling of happiness and satisfaction with the decline, with people's state of mind, attitude are closely related. Sages have said: get the more difficult, deeper love, with happiness, often thought difficult. One can always feel happy, is his greatest tragedy.
Happiness is a feeling, I do not know enough, never be happy.
live in their own way, adhere to adhere to his own, believe that they believe in and cherish what they have, quietly waiting, happy to knock on the door of the moment ~ ~ ~ you will be happy!
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